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REVEALED! 7 Kinky Things Women Secretly Want

Ask her to try these hot ideas and find out how kinky she is!

“Guys are horny” “They’re perverts” “Only men want to do weird sex stuff”

All girls are told these sorts of truisms when they’re going through puberty. We’re taught that good girls find a nice guy and make love to him. Good girls don’t FUCK.

So why, in all my hookups, was I the one who wanted to be kinky?

We’ve been the victims of a lie!

I felt like a slut. Like a dirty creep for wanting kinky sex. And so I did some research.

It turns out that women love shaking things up as much as men do. It’s because we’re told we’re not meant to, that we’re too scared to ask.

These are my top 10 kinky bedroom turnons. Next time you’re about to fuck a girl, ask her about these. You’ll thank me later.

1. Get rough with me

She welcomes high intensity. squirt-masters.tumblr.com

This idea that girls like gentle lovers is so frikken outdated. It dates back to when picking up chicks meant going to a ball hosted by the local aristocrat.

Women love a bit of rough and tumble. We like a good hard fuck sometimes. It shows you’re passionate about how beautiful we are.

And it gives us the opportunity to be rough too. I love clawing at a guy’s back, riding him like a mechanical bull, and even using my teeth.

Read about why girls love to be dominated in bed!

2. You raise me up

Let’s be honest. A bed is the best place to have sex. Everything else gets uncomfortable quick. But there’s a charm to getting lifted up against the wall, on a counter, or a fuckin’ ledge.

I love starting off in the kitchen and, with my guy already inside me, being carried off to the bedroom.

3. I’ll take it anally

There’s many a Christian girl who took it anally in the name of Jesus. But anal sex is not just God’s loophole.

“Among women who had vaginal sex in their last encounter, the percentage who said they reached orgasm was 65. Among those who received oral sex, it was 81. But among those who had anal sex, it was 94. Anal sex outscored cunnilingus.” Slate

Yes, you read that correctly. Women are more likely to orgasm during sex through the backdoor!

Yes, put it right in there! imagetwist.com

Anal sex feels great, but many women will never ask for it. Some are bound to be scared of the pain. Fair enough. The first few times do hurt, even if the pleasure is like nothing you’ve ever felt before.

But many others are scared that they’ll come across as a slut, or that guys will be grossed out.

You know that’s not the case. So don’t keep your anal fantasies to yourself. Ask her, and you’ll probably get lucky!

Find out everything you need to know about anal sex!

4. Let’s go to the park

John Legend’s ode to PDA is not only my dog’s favorite song (because he loves going to the park, get it???). It’s also a huge turn on for guys and girls alike.

There is literally nothing hotter than feeling a breeze on my bare skin while having a major orgasm.

Some great places to have public sex without getting arrested, include:

  • deserted beaches – although sand in the vagina is a very real problem.
  • parks at night. It can be dangerous to make yourself so vulnerable in an empty park, but that’s part of the thrill.
  • up against a hotel window. I love getting fucked from behind while watching the world below. I’ve been “caught” twice, but since it’s in my own private room, it’s not like anyone would call the police.
  • handjobs or oral in a movie theater. I got the idea from Alanis Morissette when I was just 16, and I’ve surprised many boyfriends with some mid-movie action.
  • in a dressing room. That other customers are just behind a flimsy wall is the thrill I need.

5. Choke me, spank me, pull my hair

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Look, I’m not into BDSM. Being tied up, whipped, etc. has never been my turnon.

But that doesn’t mean I won’t enjoy it.

While I’m not going to go looking for BDSM partners, I can be a bit of a masochist. I’ve let guys “choke” me (obviously, without any real danger) and haven’t liked it. But having my hair pulled is sexy, and so is being spanked, especially with a brush.

6. Rimming

Rimming, or analingus, is one of those things you either love or are disgusted by. Or you love it because you’re disgusted by it.

I love tonguing a guy’s asshole because of how dirty it makes me feel!

To be fair, I only rim a guy if he douches first. I’m not gonna lick any dirty crack.

I also love it when a guy is willing to do the same for me. And if he doesn’t make me wash first, kissing him after is so fuckin good!

Grossed out? Then never mention it again.

But if you’re turned on, ask that kinky girl if she wants it.

7. Call me a slut

You might get this reaction but it’s worth it. giphy.com

I know why guys get scared of dirty talk. You don’t want to be accused of misogyny. And yeah, some girls will slap you across the face.

I love it when guys call me a whore, demean me, tell me they want to eat my cunt!

Risk the slap across the face. Because most women will take it in its context and won’t assume you’re a woman-hating monster.

ASK!!!

The reason you’re probably scared of doing these things is that it might be taken the wrong way. And some of them you should be scared of just doing. Taking an executive decision to do anal sex might be tantamount to rape.

But that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t try kinky shit.

JUST REMEMBER TO ASK US FIRST!!!

The worst that will happen is she’ll say “Ew,” and you’ll get on with your vanilla sex. The best that can happen is you both have your sexual fantasies fulfilled and you’ll give her multiple orgasms.

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