Every woman has certain expectations when getting into bed with a man. This is especially when he is all hot and sexy, speaks to her heart, and turns her loins into a furnace. A woman’s mind has a way of expecting heaven in such instances, and gets extremely disappointed when sex turns out badly. The worst thing that can possibly happen in bed is premature ejaculation. It robs a woman of any chance of the barest of sexual experiences.
Premature ejaculation makes you orgasm just when you are getting started. Sometimes it can happen before you even take off your pants. It can be uncontrollable and instinctive, and defy every mental effort. It takes your woman by surprise, although she smiles casually and tells you not to worry. The look in her eyes betrays her real feelings though. She is dying inside with frustration.
How Premature Ejaculation Affects Your Relationship
Sex is a deeply rooted and primal desire for all humans. Men and women alike go into relationships expecting sexual satisfaction and release. Unfortunately, premature ejaculation is an insidious problem that can break relationships, trigger infidelity, and cause unhappiness.
A lot of committed women will not think twice about cheating when you have a problem with premature ejaculation. It becomes the ultimate justification for seeking sexual satisfaction from a different man. In fact, many women will see their infidelity as the only solution for staying with you. Even when she does not cheat, you will have sleepless nights worrying that she might just be doing it.
Additionally, premature ejaculation can cause a lot of stress and frustration in a man. All men want to penetrate a woman and sufficiently pleasure her till screams with happiness. Premature ejaculation never gives you the chance to enjoy this. Instead, you are left to rue your predicament. You get deeply embarrassed and humiliated every time it happens.
This is especially horrible when in a committed relationship. Every day brings humiliation and disappointment. You are unable to look at your woman in the eye. You feel less manly, your self esteem takes a beating, and your stress levels peak. It worsens if your secret leaks, and you become the butt of humiliating jokes.
Other parts of your life may begin to suffer, including your job performance. In time, this ruins your relationship completely. Furthermore, it makes you dread sex, and compounds the problem further.
You are not alone. This is a common problem that affects millions of men. There are many premature ejaculation treatments available for you. Here is a list of the most popular:
The Ejaculation Trainer
This insightful eBook by Matt Gorden is a complete guide, and one of the most effective premature ejaculation treatments. It delves deep into the causes of the problem and proposes ways of curing it permanently.
According to Matt, there are 5 main causes of premature ejaculation. The first is genetics, which makes all men instinctively want to ejaculate as quickly as possible for reproduction. The others include excessive masturbation during teen years, excess intensity during arousal, lack of knowledge, and too much penile sensitivity.
The Ejaculation Trainer uses 3 steps to control premature ejaculation. These are mental control, hormonal regulation, and physical control. Controlling you physical reactions involves understanding the role of each muscle used in ejaculation, and learning how to manipulate them.
It uses 18 scientifically proven techniques to cure your problem. These have been used successfully by thousands of men globally since 2008. It also outlines mistakes that you might be making, which can exacerbate the problem. It further provides breathing techniques, ways of controlling ejaculation triggers, how to use foreplay the right way.
The Ejaculation Trainer can give you results in as little as 1-3 weeks. These will last for the rest of your life, and permanently transform your sexual experience. You will be able to last as much as 10-30 minutes while thrusting, without the need to pull out, squeeze, pause, or pull out.
The Stud 100
This is the world’s leading delay spray for men. Manufactured in the UK, it has been made to specifically cure premature ejaculation by reducing sensitivity. Many men are naturally very sensitive especially around the penis. This causes them to be overly aroused when caressed or penetrating a woman. This excessive arousal triggers ejaculation, which cannot be controlled through other means.
Stud 100 contains a special formulation of lidocaine. This is a widely used and topically applied anesthetic, which does not cause any undesirable side effects. By reducing the sensitivity on the penis, it allows a man to thrust deeply and longer, without triggering his ejaculation reflexes. The reduction in sensitivity is temporary, and only aimed at delaying ejaculation for a while. It is fast acting and can be applied just before sex.
Stud 100 has major advantages over other premature ejaculation treatments that are applied on the penis. The most important is its absorption into the skin, where it acts on nerve endings in the penis that control ejaculation. The dosage therefore acts only where it is required.
Since it is also absorbed into the skin, it does not affect the woman’s sensations. Other topically applied premature ejaculation treatments also cause a loss of sensation in the woman’s vagina, which is highly undesirable.
Stud 100 is non toxic and can be safely used with latex condoms. It contains no odor, requires no prescription, and is approved by the FDA and other health authorities around the globe.
Other Premature Ejaculation Treatments
You may also use other treatments to prevent premature ejaculation. These include:
•Condoms with benzocaine: These condoms contain the mild anesthetic, which reduces sensation and delays ejaculation.
•Kegel exercises: These are aimed at strengthening PC muscles and controlling their function. These are muscles involved in ejaculation.
•Stop and start technique: By pausing the thrusting, sexual arousal is reduced, and this breaks the orgasmic buildup to delay ejaculation. The penis can also be squeezed to stop the ejaculation reflex.
•Breathing techniques: Breathing slowly and deeply when faced with imminent ejaculation can effectively stop and delay premature ejaculation.
•Oral medications: These are aimed at delaying premature ejaculation. They include antidepressants, analgesics, and phosphodiesterase-5-inhibitors.
Preventing premature ejaculation is possible through any of these methods. It is important to seek treatment rather than hiding the problem and suffering in silence. Furthermore, you should seek counseling to deal with the deep psychological effects of premature ejaculation.