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3 Techniques That Will Make You A Cunnilingus Pro

Man Eating Her Pussy Out

Cunnilingus, otherwise known as eating out, is one of the most reliable ways to make a woman cum. Women absolutely love it, as Hollywood tells us all the time. There are some great NSFW cunnilingus scenes in mainstream movies. Probably the most famous is Sharon Stone in Basic Instinct. If you need a bit of distraction, you can see some other examples here, here and here.

The problem is that we don’t always know what we’re doing. Some men don’t even know where to find the clitoris. (If you’re one of those men, study up quick before carrying on).

But even if you know where the clitoris is, what exactly do you do with it? Quick flicks or slow rotations? Hard or soft? What should you do with your fingers?

We want to make sure you never struggle again. These 3 techniques are the most effective methods of eating a girl out. We’ve also provided some extra tips at the end.

1. Ringa Ringa Rosy

This is how you eat her pussy out
For what should be obvious reasons, I like to call this technique ringa ringa rosy. It’s the most fundamental of all cunnilingus methods and it’s also the simplest. This is what you should try first, before attempting anything else.

And this isn’t like learning with a tricycle before getting a real bike. This technique, while basic, is guaranteed to get her cumming. If this is all you learn, you know enough. Everything else is either just to shake things up or as extra trimmings.

I recommend a little bit of foreplay to warm her up for this. Slide your tongue down her belly. Give her some belly button action if she doesn’t find that weird. Build the tension as you reach her pubic hair and go ever so slowly towards the cherry (or rosy).

Now, move your tongue around the clit in slow circles. Keep it steady and rhythmic, and don’t speed up unless she wants you to. Make sure you start off with light pressure.

When she starts to get off, flick the hood of her clitoris. But be gentle! You don’t want to hurt the 6,000 nerve endings. If she likes this, do it every so often, but don’t stop going in circles. Ultimately, the pleasure comes from the circular motion, and the occasional flick just adds to the fun.

2. The Cha Cha Slide

Slide to the left, slide to the right. Okay, only take that piece of advice from the song – if you’re hopping around or stomping your feet you’re doing it wrong.

This method is as simple as the previous one. You can use it on the one in a million girl who doesn’t take to Ringa Ringa Rosy. Or, when you’ve been with a girl for a while, to throw in some variation.

All this method takes is licking the clit from the right to the left and back with smooth and soft strokes. Again, keeping a steady rhythm is crucial. You might need some practice, as for some of us it’s natural to make harsh, darting movements with our tongues.

When it comes to cunnilingus – and most everything sexual – harsh, darting movements = BAD.

3. Incy Wincy Spider

Cunnilingus pro goes down on her pussy
The 3rd and final technique is named for Incy Wincy Spider’s epic journey. Yes, you guessed it. Up the spout, right down, and up again.

This trick is perfect for hitting each and every nerve ending, but only if you do it right.

Incy Wincy Spider should be reserved for when she’s already aroused and is close to orgasm. The technique is simple. From the top of her clitoris, lick downwards until you reach the bottom of the labia. Then move slowly upwards again. Repeat, repeat, repeat!

Unlike the other methods, where light pressure is crucial to pleasure, with this technique you can try slightly more pressure. This all depends on the girl. Some will love a bit of hard tonguing, but others will want you to keep it soft. Listen to her groans. If she sounds like she’s in pain, that’s a signal to tone it down.

This technique will get her to climax like no other. It should be used in conjunction with one of the other 2 methods, and it will cap off the one of the best orgasms she’s ever had.

You, my friend, will be her hero.

Just the (basic) tips

With these techniques you will make her cum like never before. She may even squirt, if you’re lucky.

There are some basic tips you need to remember, no matter which method you’re using.

  • Flatten your tongue and use wide strokes. Sharp tonguing will mostly hurt.
  • Go through the clitoral hood to get to the actual glans of the clitoris. Again, if you’re not totally familiar with it, read up on the anatomy.
  • Take a chance and suck on it. See if she likes it. Some girls really do, and it’s another move to add to your already more than adequate repertoire.
  • Add your fingers, or a toy, into her vagina. Many women like to be penetrated during cunnilingus. You can use lubricant, but she’ll probably be soaking wet already.
  • Let her use her own fingers while you’re down there, if she prefers. Just like we know what works best to get us off, she’s had a lot of first hand experience down there.
  • Even if she’s loving it, keep it steady. With us, when we’re reaching climax we like to go increasingly fast. Don’t assume the same with your girl. Keep doing the same, slow motions until she cums.
  • Don’t spell out the alphabet. This is advice that’s been going around schools and colleges for years, and it’s just not true. Rather focus on the steady movements, than spelling out A to Z.

This is all you really need to know to be a pro at cunnilingus. With a bit of practice, you’ll become a living legend.

Written by Paco Penne

I’m Paco Penne, and my aim is to help you enjoy sex without performance anxiety! Since I can remember, I’ve been extremely open-minded, and therefore unafraid to explore every facet of sex and relationships. I’m excited to share my experience with you and created The Adonis Alpha for this purpose! Get to know a bit more about me here.

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